If your cat won’t tolerate a plastic E-cone, there are fabric, cushioned and inflatable cones and collars you could try.
Another option is to bandage the wound to prevent the cat from licking or biting it. The dressing must be tight enough to stay on, but not so tight that it causes discomfort. You can buy special cat bandages with a bitter taste to deter your cat from chewing or biting them. Be prepared to clean and re-dress the wound every day.
Alternatively, your cat might be happier wearing a ‘recovery suit’ – a feline body stocking or onesie that covers the sore area without restricting their movement. You can buy one ready-made or fashion your own out of an old T-shirt, baby-gro or large sock.
Never yell at, hit or otherwise punish your cat for licking their wounds or removing an E-cone or bandage. They’re just doing what comes naturally, they won’t understand, and you’ll be adding stress and anxiety to an already traumatic situation for them.