Many studies suggest that your furry friend actually sees you as a member of their feline family – that is, as an over-large cat (who’s not particularly good at hunting). If they lick or groom you, you can usually take it as a good sign that you’re a beloved part of their clan.
10 signs that your cat loves you
Our feline friends don’t always make their feelings obvious, so how do you know that your cat loves you? Pets have their own ways of communicating how they feel; chances are, your cat is actually your number one secret admirer! Look out for these telltale signs of cat affection...
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1. Grooming
2. Biting
Kittens show affection for one another through playful biting behaviour, and your cat might do the same to you. However, if those sharp little teeth start to hurt, don’t react badly, as this could confuse them. Instead, try directing their attention away with a toy or game.
3. Eye contact
If you’re wondering how to tell if your cat loves you, watch for signs that they're completely comfortable around you. Cats interpret eye contact with a stranger – whether feline or human – as threatening. If they're happy to look you in the eye, and especially if they slowly blink while doing so, they have lovingly accepted you as one of their own.
4. Head-butts
Cats mark their territory using the scent glands on their cheeks and head. So by head-butting you, or rubbing their chin against you, your feline friend is affectionately marking you out as theirs.
5. Generous ‘gifts’
If your cat presents you with prey they've caught, they could be taking on the role of a teacher – just as they might show their kittens how to hunt. Since they've never actually seen you catch your food, they may simply assume you’re a member of the family who needs to be taught!
6. Tall tails
A cat’s tail can be a good indicator of how they're feeling, and can help you get an understanding of their body language. If your pet approaches with their tail held high and the tip twitching from side-to-side, interpret it as international cat language for, ‘I’m friendly and I like you’.
7. Meowing
Adult cats rarely meow at other cats. Instead they often use their vocalisations specifically to interact with people. And, just like us, a cat is unlikely to ‘talk’ to those they don't like. If your cat does a lot of meowing (even when they're well fed and warm), it may be that they're interacting with you out of love.
8. Kneading
There are many theories as to why cats knead your knee, but experts believe it’s a behaviour kittens learn in order to stimulate their mother’s milk flow. By practising this habit on you, your cat is once again showing that they accept you as part of the family. If your pet is a keen kneader, try putting a thick blanket between you and their busy paws.
9. Sleeping on you
One of the most convincing signs your cat loves you is them being happy to snooze on your lap. As a natural hunter, your cat doesn’t like to feel vulnerable – and is especially wary of feeling this way while asleep. By sleeping on you, they're exposing themself at their most defenceless, and showing their trust for you.
10. Presenting their behind
Cats identify each other by scent, and so sniffing one another’s behinds is the equivalent of a very personal handshake. While presenting their tail to your face can seem a bit like a back-handed compliment, it’s actually a signal that you’re one of their most trusted people.
Why not show your cats some love? Post your pictures on Facebook, Instagram or X with the tag #PethoodStories and we might share on our channel (@petplan_uk).
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